Egg donation plays a vital role in helping families build their future, but behind every successful donation lies a careful process of screening, education, and ethical consideration. In this episode, attorney James Mahan speaks with Dr. Aimee, known as “The Egg Whisperer,” about what really happens behind the scenes of egg donation — from donor…
In this episode of The Surrogate’s Corner, host James Mahan speaks with Dr. Aimee, widely known as “The Egg Whisperer,” about the medical side of surrogacy. Dr. Aimee shares deep insights into the screening process, embryo transfer decisions, and how both surrogates and intended parents can better navigate the medical and emotional aspects of a…
What are the emotional highs and lows of the surrogacy journey? James Mahan explained that surrogacy is filled with both peaks and valleys. On one hand, surrogates experience the joy of helping intended parents achieve their dream of having a child—an emotional high that is deeply rewarding. On the other hand, there are emotional lows,…
Psychological screening and counseling play a pivotal role in ensuring successful surrogacy journeys for gestational carriers, donors, and intended parents. This episode of Surrogate’s Corner, featuring attorney James Mahan and Joey Guzman-Kuffel of Counseling with Joey and Associates, explores the screening process, joint counseling sessions, and emotional preparation strategies to support all parties in assisted…
What defines a high-risk pregnancy in surrogacy, and who determines that status? According to surrogacy attorney James Mahan, the classification of a pregnancy as “high-risk” is typically determined by the surrogate’s OB or midwife—not the intended parents. Around 13–14 weeks into the pregnancy, certain tests may signal developmental or health concerns. If issues like gestational…
What is an escrow company and why is it essential in surrogacy journeys? Escrow companies play a vital role in surrogacy arrangements by securely holding and managing funds between intended parents and surrogates. As explained by Abby Helmuth of SeedTrust, escrow provides a neutral, third-party platform that ensures all payments are managed strictly according to…
What should surrogates consider when evaluating a potential match? The most significant consideration is personal compatibility. Surrogates should evaluate their preferences regarding location – whether they want IPs to be local or are comfortable with international matches. Time zone differences, language barriers, and communication styles can significantly impact the journey. Some matches may require communication…
What are the essential insurance questions surrogates should ask before starting their journey? Before beginning a surrogacy journey, carriers should determine if they’ll need new policies. This includes asking whether their existing insurance is sufficient or if new coverage will be required. Key areas to consider are medical insurance, life insurance, and disability coverage. It’s…
What are the typical contractual obligations for surrogates regarding medical decisions during pregnancy? Most contracts include significant deference to medical testing and specialist recommendations from treating physicians, whether OB-GYNs, midwives, or IVF physicians. When medical issues directly affect the surrogate’s health, well-being, or future fertility, decision-making authority typically remains with the surrogate. For decisions primarily…
What led you to become involved in the surrogacy industry? The journey began 12 years ago as a gestational carrier, experiencing a challenging path that included six cycles, four transfers, and various medical complications, including hyperemesis gravidarum and preterm labor. Despite the difficulties, a strong relationship with the intended parents made it manageable. After completing…